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Colin Brownlee's avatar

Depressing, but prudent topic. I am Canadian living in Costa Rica and I am beyond words to talk about what is happening right before our very eyes.

However, I am somewhat perplexed by your suggestions around travel relating to the US. First of all as a Canadian, I feel it's my duty to not travel to the US unless it's absolutely necessary. But inevitably, traveling to certain locations will most likely involve transiting through the US. Just when I was getting over my anxiety of travel because of things like PTSD surrounding covid, now a whole new sh*t show :-(.

In one of the pieces of your advice, you suggest deleting social media posts that might be considered anti-trump or anti-US administration. As a gay male Canadian, I just can not fathom capitulating to that level. As a person from a country that feels it's about to be invaded, I feel I might as well just hand them my keys.

I love your blog, with all it's integrity and authenticity. However, I am surprised you would suggest this given your own content is exactly what you suggest we should consider censoring. I guess with you being American citizens, it would be harder to deny you entry or at worst lock you up (not yet anyway).

But us as non-Americans living outside the US, feeling pressured to not share how we are feeling and trying to make efforts to stop the madness spreading beyond the US borders... NOPE! I just can't do it. I have fought to long and hard in my life to just so easily give up just the most basic right of freedom of expression and speech because of pressure of a foreign country and it's leaders.

I realize that ultimately it might result in being denied entry into your country and I would accept that any day then give up this fundamental basic freedom. Hopefully, the worst that happens is that I have to return to my point of departure and does not end up with me put in some ICE cell somewhere under phony auspicious accusations.

I understand people's fear. I have them as well and have lightly thought about this topic. But if I look back at history with our community fighting to survive and then fighting and ultimately obtaining something that resembles equal rights under the law, we did not get there by giving up these most basic rights.

If the good people of the US are lost and don't know what how to fight what is going on, may I suggest they research the groups and initiatives like ACT UP that helped pave the way through the AIDS crisis. They got sh*t done with no apologies.

On a lighter, more postive note, look at what a few acts of resistance and vandalism can do to financial circumstances of one the biggest perpetrators of this atrocities on your country. It's very inspiring and can set a great example of non-violent power we have and how to use it if needed.

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David's avatar

I was in Vallarta from February 19 to 23. One afternoon walking through the Zona Romántica, I saw an obese American good-ole boy wearing a Trump/Vance 2024 t-shirt. I thought to myself, What a blankety-blank-blank blank. His intention had to have been to antagonize. Why else would he wear such a thing in Mexico? He should've gone on vacation to South Padre.

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