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Teri Simonds's avatar

I’m not a fan of Starbucks, mostly because I don’t like their coffee. Our running club used to gather there after the Tuesday morning runs. Over time, the space became less welcoming—hard surfaces thst amplified noise, uncomfortable seating, awkwardly arranged. There’s a local coffee shop within walking distance of my house. It’s truly a third space: customers have gotten to know one another over time, the baristas are wonderful, they’ve improved the outside with plantings and a patio. And they have the best coffee in the county!

Benthall Slow Travel's avatar

This is great — thank you for the reminder. I’ll start noticing “third places” more closely as we travel. Sometimes ours is a pub in Ireland, sometimes a café in France, sometimes just the Airbnb balcony where we linger long enough to meet the neighbors.

I love how you tie it back to America too — maybe there’s still potential for us to return to community. Because the real trick isn’t the venue, it’s whether it slows you down long enough to belong.

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